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quinta-feira, 15 de agosto de 2013

Puerto Rican gay boxer Orlando Cruz to marry boyfriend

in: http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2013/08/15/puerto-rican-gay-boxer-orlando-cruz-to-marry-boyfriend/


Wedding bells for Orlando Cruz (Photo: EMC Events)


Puerto Rican professional boxer Orlando Cruz is to marry his long term boyfriend José Manuel after proposing on Facebook.

In a video message posted to the social networking site, Cruz said (via translation) “I wanted to tell you how much I need you and how much I miss you”.

Mentioning his upcoming WBO Featherweight Title fight against Mexico’s Orlando Solido, he said to Manuel: “Now, more than ever that I have an important fight coming up for the world championship, I want to tell you that you are a very special person in my life. I am a little nervous, but I want to tell you and share with your friends and my friends if you want to marry me. I want you to be part of my life and me be part of yours.”

In a similar video reply, Manuel accepted his boxing boyfriend’s proposal.

Cruz went public about his sexuality in October 2012 and became boxing’s first openly gay professional fighter in the process.

He released a statement to the world saying: “I’ve been fighting for more than 24 years and as I continue my ascendant career, I want to be true to myself.

“I want to try to be the best role model I can be for kids who might look into boxing as a sport and a professional career.

“I have and will always be a proud Puerto Rican. I have always been and always will be a proud gay man.”

Equal marriage is not currently recognised in Puerto Rico.
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2013/08/15/puerto-rican-gay-boxer-orlando-cruz-to-marry-boyfriend/

WWE wrestler Darren Young comes out as gay: ‘I’m comfortable with myself, and I’m happy’

in: http://sports.nationalpost.com/2013/08/15/wwe-wrestler-darren-young-comes-out-as-gay-im-comfortable-with-myself-and-im-happy/


"Some people might not like it. Some people will like it," Darren Young said. "But I'm here to please myself. I'm here to be happy."


WWE wrestler Darren Young has come out as gay in an interview with TMZ.

The 29-year-old American was asked in the interview, posted Thursday morning, whether he believes a gay wrestler can be successful in the WWE.

“Absolutely,” Young responded. “Look at me. I’m a WWE superstar and to be honest with you, I’ll tell you right now, I’m gay. And I’m happy. I’m very happy.

“I’m just letting you know that I’m happy who I am, I’m comfortable with myself, and I’m happy to be living a dream.”

Young said his sexual orientation does not matter to his profession.

“Some people might not like it. Some people will like it. But I’m here to please myself. I’m here to be happy.”

He added that he was “hoping to be able to make a difference” with his revelation.

“It’s very important to me that people understand that someone’s sexual preference shouldn’t really matter. It should be about the person.”

WWE released a statement in support of Darren Young later on Thursday.

“WWE is proud of Darren Young for being open about his sexuality, and we will continue to support him as a WWE Superstar. Today, in fact, Darren will be participating in one of our Be A STAR anti-bullying rallies in Los Angeles to teach children how to create positive environments for everyone regardless of age, race, religion or sexual orientation.”

In another interview with TMZ, fellow wrestler John Cena said it was “wonderful” that Young came out.

“It doesn’t affect his work. He’s a wonderful worker in the ring,” Cena told TMZ. “Darren Young is a consummate professional. I’m actually very proud of him for doing that.”

WWE wrestler and executive Triple H voiced his support via Twitter.

In April, Jason Collins became the first gay athlete in one of the four major men’s professional sports in North America to come out during his career. Liz Carmouche and Jessica Andrade faced off in the first UFC fight featuring two out lesbians at the end of July. 
 
Also this year Robbie Rogers, who revealed he was gay upon his retirement over the winter, made his return to Major League Soccer, joining the Los Angeles Galaxy. American soccer player Megan Rapinoe came out before the London Olympics and first overall pick Brittney Griner is among the WNBA’s openly gay players.

http://sports.nationalpost.com/2013/08/15/wwe-wrestler-darren-young-comes-out-as-gay-im-comfortable-with-myself-and-im-happy/

segunda-feira, 5 de agosto de 2013

Raven-Symone says she's a lesbian, grateful for legalized gay marriage


in: http://www.cnn.com/2013/08/02/showbiz/raven-symone-comes-out

 Raven-Symoné 2011.jpg

Raven-Symone, who played 3-year-old Olivia on the 1980s sitcom "The Cosby Show," indicated for the first time Friday that she is a lesbian.

"I am very happy that gay marriage is opening up around the country and is being accepted," the actress said in a statement through her representatives.

"I was excited to hear today that more states legalized gay marriage. I, however am not currently getting married, but it is great to know I can now, should I wish to," she said.

Earlier Friday, Symone posted a tweet: "I can finally get married! Yay government! So proud of you."
In response to media inquiries after that tweet, her representatives said that "Raven is not getting married. She was just supporting the fact that she heard on NPR that more states legalized gay marriage today."
Symone then subsequently issued her official statement.

In the past, she has said her sexual orientation was a private matter. "My sexual orientation is mine, and the person I'm datings to know. I'm not one for a public display of my life," she wrote on her Twitter page in May 2012.

After "The Cosby Show," Symone was featured with Eddie Murphy in his "Dr. Dolittle" films and starred in Disney Channel's "That's So Raven."


http://www.cnn.com/2013/08/02/showbiz/raven-symone-comes-out

quinta-feira, 2 de maio de 2013

Orlando Cruz on Jason Collins: ‘Coming out as gay doesn’t make you less of a man’



in: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/orlando-cruz-jason-collins-%E2%80%98coming-out-gay-doesn%E2%80%99t-make-you-less-man%E2%80%99020513




Orlando Cruz has spoken out about the recently out NBA star Jason Collins, saying 'coming out doesn't make you any less of a man'.



The first professional boxer to come out as gay has sounded off on the recent coming out of Jason Collins, the NBA star that came out this week.

Orlando Cruz, who revealed his sexuality last year, said the two of them are showing being gay does not make them any less than straight men.

‘Coming out does not make him less of a man because he is a great athlete,’ Cruz told NBC Latino.

‘[Collins] is living the dream of every high school kid who wants to play basketball. He should always keep his self-esteem up because he has the right to be where he is like any other athlete.’

When Cruz came out, he says all he wanted was respect for who he is as an athlete. The Puerto Rican is currently ranked as the number four featherweight boxer in the world.

‘We are two individuals that are making history,’ Cruz said. ‘He is the first active gay basketball player. But I was the first in boxing. I feel very happy that I’m inspiring other athletes to gain the courage to do the same.’

The 31-year-old said he understood the physical and mental preparation that Collins went through to make the announcement, who spent two years in counseling in order to prepare to come out to the world.

Losing only two fights in his professional career, Cruz is now hoping to become the first openly gay world champion in a sport.

When asked what will happen when he faces a homophobic opponent, Cruz said last year he knows he has some ‘tough days’ ahead of him.

He said: ‘Someone will come along who calls me a faggot or a fairy. I’ll say: “What? You call me a faggot?

‘But you’d better watch out, because I’m the faggot who’s going to kick your ass”.’


http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/orlando-cruz-jason-collins-%E2%80%98coming-out-gay-doesn%E2%80%99t-make-you-less-man%E2%80%99020513

domingo, 24 de fevereiro de 2013

Video: Gay Mormon student posts video of himself coming out



in: http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2013/02/23/video-gay-mormon-student-posts-video-of-himself-coming-out/





A student at the Mormon Brigham Young University in Utah, has recorded his experience of coming out in a video which he says he hopes more people to understand what it is like being gay and Mormon.

Jimmy Hales recorded the YouTube video published earlier this week, which shows live footage of him coming out to friends and family.

He describes it as: “Studying at BYU as a closet gay Mormon has been quite an experience. I finally decided to come out and stop living a lie. I’m still, and will forever be, a faithful Mormon, so it looks like I’m not going to marry and therefore live a single life through this mortal existence. Sucks.”

Before showing his coming out experiences, Mr Hales introduces the video, explaining why he made it.

He says: “So what does being a gay Mormon mean? Well it means that I’m going to live a celibate live. Sucks. It has been very hard and frankly, us gay Mormons, we need your help.

“We’re already very lonely. It doesn’t help that people pretend like, or act like, we’re not here. Coming out to people has been very difficult. In fact the hardest person to come out to was myself.”

He then comes out to his mother, brother and sister, and several college and high school friends. Most react by saying they are shocked, but most say they are proud of him.

He concludes: “As a Mormon, I have an internal perspective, and that is what keeps me going. It still sucks. The doctrine of the Mormon Church isn’t going to change.

“But members of the church are changing in that they are becoming more understanding about those of us who are gay and Mormon.

“Ever since I started coming out and telling people that I’m gay, I feel like a huge burden has been lifted off of me. I think prior to now the biggest problem was ignorance. People had no reason to incentive to think of this.

“People have reached out with love and understanding, empathy. And for you straight people out there, it might be difficult to get your head wrapped around this. It’s not easy.

“To you other gay Mormons out there, just know that you’re not alone. If you choose to come out, come out in your own way, in your own time.

“I hope this video has helped you to understand more about those of us who are gay and Mormon.”



http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2013/02/23/video-gay-mormon-student-posts-video-of-himself-coming-out/

sexta-feira, 22 de fevereiro de 2013

Clive Davis reveals bisexuality in new memoir


in: http://marquee.blogs.cnn.com/2013/02/19/clive-davis-reveals-bisexuality-in-new-memoir/?hpt=hp_t2


Clive Davis reveals bisexuality in new memoir




Industry legend Clive Davis is recounting both his personal and professional life in a new memoir called "The Soundtrack of My Life."

The exec, who helped form the careers of artists like Whitney Houston, Janis Joplin, Bruce Springsteen and Alicia Keys, focuses mainly on his work with such varied and marquee stars over the past five decades, Rolling Stone reports.

But it wouldn't be a memoir if Davis didn't get personal.

Toward the end of his tome, the 80-year-old record exec goes into detail about his sexuality. Davis, who's twice-divorced, reportedly explains that he began to explore relationships with men during "the era of Studio 54."

On one particular evening, Davis writes that he was "open to responding to [the] sexual overtures" of a gentleman admirer.

"Was I nervous? Absolutely," Davis writes, according to Entertainment Weekly. "Did the heavens open up? No. But it was satisfying."

Through subsequent years, Davis writes, he held relationships with both men and women. He's been in a monogamous relationship with a man for the past seven years.

Timed in conjunction with his book's February 19 release, Davis will also appear on Katie Couric's daytime show "Katie" to discuss the stories he's chosen to share.

In a preview clip of their Tuesday chat, the exec explains to Couric, as he reportedly does in the book, that he considers himself to be bisexual.

"I'm still attracted to women. You don't have to be only one thing or another," Davis says. "For me it's the person. I'm in a monogamous relationship, [and] I respect monogamy. And I hope that this is understood."



http://marquee.blogs.cnn.com/2013/02/19/clive-davis-reveals-bisexuality-in-new-memoir/?hpt=hp_t2

sexta-feira, 15 de fevereiro de 2013

Leeds United and US soccer star Robbie Rogers comes out as gay


in: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/leeds-united-and-us-soccer-star-robbie-rogers-comes-out-gay150213


Footballer Robbie Rogers has come out as gay and quit professional soccer.
Photo by Longbomb.


 
American international and former British Leeds United football midfielder Robbie Rogers has come out as gay.

The 25-year-old told fans he no longer wants to keep his sexuality a secret.

He added he ‘couldn’t be happier’ with his decision.

He’s the highest profile footballer to come out in Britain’s national game since Justin Fashanu in 1990. He committed suicide in 1998.

Writing on his blog Rogers said he had feared coming out as gay would get in the way of his dreams.

‘Dreams of going to a World Cup, dreams of The Olympics, dreams of making my family proud. What would life be without these dreams? Could I live a life without them?’ he asked.

But now he has decided to get things off his chest.

He wrote: ‘Secrets can cause so much internal damage. People love to preach about honesty, how honesty is so plain and simple.

‘Try explaining to your loved ones after 25 years you are gay. Try convincing yourself that your creator has the most wonderful purpose for you even though you were taught differently.

‘I always thought I could hide this secret. Football was my escape, my purpose, my identity. Football hid my secret, gave me more joy than I could have ever imagined… I will never forget the friends I have made a long the way and the friends that supported me once they knew my secret.

‘Now is my time to step away. It’s time to discover myself away from football.

‘Life is so full of amazing things. I realized I could only truly enjoy my life once I was honest. Honesty is a bitch but makes life so simple and clear. My secret is gone, I am a free man, I can move on and live my life as my creator intended.’

Rogers started playing in college football at the University of Maryland. After moving to Dutch Eredivisie side Heerenveen in 2006 he returned to the US to sign for Columbus Crew the next year.

He played for the USA in the 2008 Beijing Olympics. He won an MLS Cup title with Columbus Crew that same year.

In 2012 he was with British Championship side Leeds United. He was then on loan to League One team Stevenage, also in the UK, from August 2012 until January 2013.

He is the co-owner of menswear brand Halsey.


http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/leeds-united-and-us-soccer-star-robbie-rogers-comes-out-gay150213

quarta-feira, 30 de janeiro de 2013

Gay girl comes out with cake



in: http://gaystarnews.com/article/gay-girl-comes-out-cake290113

Girl decided to come out as a lesbian in a way that really takes the cake

Laurel decided to come out in a way that really takes the cake, by baking one.




What is the best way to come out? One girl had a fantastic idea by saying it with cake.

Laurel, who posted the picture on her Tumblr, came out to her parents by leaving a cake saying ‘I’m gay’ and a letter on the kitchen table.

The letter said: ‘Good morning parents,

‘I'm gay. I've wanted to tell you for a long time. I thought doing it this way would be a piece of cake. I hope you still love me. I mean, it's hard not to love someone who baked you a cake.

‘All of my friends know and still love me. Your acceptance would be the icing on the cake.

‘I hope you, much like this cake, are not in tiers.

‘I hope we can look back on this and say "boy, this one really takes the cake."

‘It gets batter.

‘Love, Laurel.


And what happened?

‘My mom saw it and cried of happiness,’ Laurel said. ‘We hugged and cried together.

‘Then, we all ate the cake and talked. I am very luck to have such supporting parents and to have so much support from you guys. Thanks everyone! Have a gay day!’

http://gaystarnews.com/article/gay-girl-comes-out-cake290113

quarta-feira, 23 de janeiro de 2013

New Jersey high school teen announces to 300-plus classmates at assembly that he is gay


in: http://gaystarnews.com/article/new-jersey-high-school-teen-announces-300-plus-classmates-assembly-he-gay230113




New Jersey high school student Jacob Rudolph came out publicly to more than 300 classmates this month when he stepped up to accept the award for Class Actor during a school assembly.

'Sure, I've been in a few plays and musicals, but more importantly, I've been acting every single day of my life,' he told his classmates at the Parsippany, NJ school. 'You see, I've been acting as someone I'm not ... you see me acting the part of straight Jacob, when I am in fact LGBT.'

This got the noisy crowd's attention. He then explained that LGBT stands for 'Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender.'

'Unlike millions of other LGBT teens who have had to act every day to avoid verbal harassment and physical violence, I'm not going to do it anymore,' he explained.

He concluded the speech by saying: 'So take me, leave me or move me out of the way, because I am what I am, and that's how I'm going to act from now on.'

Rudolph's classmates gave the teen an enthusiastic standing ovation as he left the stage. Later, his proud father posted video of his son's speech on YouTube with a written introduction which stated that his son's decision to come out to the school took 'more guts than anything I've ever attempted in my life.'

The video was shared by a gay friend of the father who sent it to Towleroad.com on Wednesday (23 January)




http://gaystarnews.com/article/new-jersey-high-school-teen-announces-300-plus-classmates-assembly-he-gay230113

quarta-feira, 17 de outubro de 2012

Catholic gay Italian priest comes out on Facebook


in: http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/catholic-gay-italian-priest-comes-out-facebook171012


Italian Catholic priest Don Mario Bonfanti is making the headlines after having decided to 'reveal the truth' about being gay




Don Mario Bonfanti is one of the few openly gay Italian priests.



A Catholic priest is now making the headlines in Italy after having decided to come out on Facebook on International Coming Out Day (11 October).

‘I am gay. Or, better, I am a happily gay priest,’ he stated.

Don Mario Bonfanti, 41, is a priest in Pagnano, near Lecco, in the Italian region of Lombardy. And his openness about his sexuality is something of a revolution.

Openly gay priests, in Italy, are a rarity. The Italian Catholic church is know for not being tolerant of LGBT people.

Bonfanti wrote on Facebook: ‘Truth makes us free, so Jesus said.

‘But, strangely, the Church denies this sentence. Catholic LGBT people must come out. They have to accept the truth.’

Last March, don Bonfanti was banned from another parish in Brianza, Lombardy, for having supported same-sex unions.

The local community defendend their priest, but the bishop did not change his mind and moved don Bonfanti to another church.

Now, a new group, with more than 1,200 followers, has been created on Facebook. ‘Io sto con don Mario’ (I support don Mario), is the name of the group.

Don Mario Bonfanti added: ‘I am happy in this way.’


http://www.gaystarnews.com/article/catholic-gay-italian-priest-comes-out-facebook171012

domingo, 8 de julho de 2012

Hip-Hop World Gives Gay Singer Support


in: http://www.nytimes.com/

When Frank Ocean, a rising star in the R&B world, announced on Tuesday that his first true love had been a man, he seemed to be taking a giant risk with his career.





After all, Mr. Ocean, 24, is a rising star in the hypermasculine world of urban music, where singers cultivate images as lady-killers. He is a member of the Odd Future hip-hop collective, whose rappers are known for using anti-gay slurs. No other mainstream R&B artists have acknowledged having homosexual relationships. For decades, even the rumor of homosexuality had ruined artists in hip-hop circles.
But how big a gamble was it? Mr. Ocean has received strong support from other artists, his record label and cultural commentators, while the negative reactions have been largely muted and equivocal.
That lack of uproar seems to echo a broader shift in attitudes toward homosexuality and gay culture: Coming out is not as controversial as it once was. Mr. Ocean’s revelation occurred just days after Anderson Cooper, the CNN anchor, acknowledged that he was gay. It also comes just months after Jay-Z, Russell Simmons and other hip-hop figures forcefully supported President Obama after he announced his support for gay marriage.
“Ten or 15 years ago Frank Ocean could never have come out,” said Mark Anthony Neal, a professor of African-American studies at Duke University. “It would have been death to his career.”
It is too early to tell if Mr. Ocean, who declined to be interviewed for this article, will suffer for his honesty when his debut album, “Channel Orange” (Island Def Jam), is released later this month. Sales of his record will be viewed as a measure of how much times have changed. “It’s going to be a kind of litmus test,” said Nelson George, a filmmaker and the author of the novel “The Plot Against Hip-Hop.” “You can’t really know the real impact of this for six months to a year.”
It is worth noting that several major hip-hop stars have seemingly remained silent about Mr. Ocean’s decision, among them Kanye West, Lil Wayne, Rick Ross, Drake and Nicki Minaj. Mr. Ocean was also the target of dozens of death threats and antigay comments on Twitter, mostly from men.
“There is still a very nasty streak of homophobia in this country that we have to overcome,” Mr. Simmons, a founder and former owner of the Def Jam label, said. “I’m hoping the support by his friends and the members of the creative community will override it and, whatever he loses, he will gain more.”
But Mr. Ocean’s declaration that he had fallen in love with a man and carried on an intimate relationship for more than a year, which he made in a rambling, poetic letter that he posted online, immediately attracted support from Mr. Simmons, who praised Mr. Ocean for his “courage and honesty,” adding that his statement “gives hope and light to so many young people still living in fear.”
Other hip-hop heavyweights signaled their support. Jay-Z, the rapper and label owner, posted a long defense of Mr. Ocean on his Web site written by the critic Dream Hampton. Joie Manda, the president of Island Def Jam, said that Mr. Ocean “broke down a wall that should never have been built.” Female R&B artists like Solange Knowles and Rita Ora published supportive messages online.
And Tyler, the Creator, the shock rapper who has collaborated with Mr. Ocean in the cutting-edge group Odd Future, said on Twitter that he stood beside him. The statement was all the more surprising since Tyler, the Creator, often insults gay men in his lyrics.
The positive reaction suggests that there has been a cultural shift, music critics said. For a new generation of R&B fans, it seems, just as for the rest of the population, sexual orientation has become a less toxic issue.
“To even have a climate where a relatively young person — he’s 24 — is comfortable enough not only to intimate this in his lyrics but to make a statement about it and put it on Tumblr says we have come a way as a society,” said Joan Morgan, a critic and the author of “When Chickenheads Come Home to Roost,” essays about feminism in hip-hop.
Jerry Boulding, urban editor for All Access, a radio trade publication, predicted urban program directors would still play Mr. Ocean’s songs if he maintained the quality of his previous work. “It becomes a question of talent — he obviously is talented,” Mr. Boulding said. “But he is going to have to pick his material well, because some of the things he sang about before he came out obviously won’t have the same meaning now.”
The publicity surrounding Mr. Ocean’s announcement might even work in his favor, generating interest in the new album, Mr. Boulding said.
Ebro Darden, the program director for Hot 97, a hip-hop station in New York, said that Mr. Ocean’s sexual orientation would not be a factor in the station’s calculations about broadcasting his songs. “Hot 97 has supported Frank Ocean since before his record label knew what to do with him, and we will continue to,” he said. “I hope people judge him based on his music, not personal preferences.”
There have been gay rappers before, but most were underground artists who never gained mainstream popularity. In the Bay Area a group of homosexual rappers formed the Deep Dickollective in 2000 and tried to start a “homohop” genre, putting out four albums before disbanding. The white lesbian rapper Invincible has developed a following in Detroit. The songwriter, rapper and bassist Meshell Ndegeocello and the independent R&B singer Rahsaan Patterson have also come out.
Mr. Ocean might have been a target of greater criticism, several critics said, if he were a tough-guy rapper or a seductive R&B singer in the tradition of Marvin Gaye. But his music is about nuanced heartbreak rather than seduction. “He’s never been read as a hypermasculine R&B singer,” Mr. Neal said. “His audience is already sensitive to this kind of issue.”
Though he is not yet a major star, he is still a promising and in-demand songwriter. Last year he released “Nostalgia, Ultra,” a mixtape that received rave reviews and included the R&B hit “Novacane,” which has sold 185,000 singles. He also contributed two hooks to “Watch the Throne” (Roc-A-Fella/Def Jam /Roc Nation), last year’s collaboration between Jay-Z and Kanye West, and wrote the track “I Miss You” with Beyoncé for her most recent album, “4” (Columbia).
Because Mr. Ocean is an emotive singer who has written many songs about heterosexual relationships, his sexuality had never come into question until this week, when some critics noted the lyrics for three songs on his new album — “Bad Religion,” “Pink Matter” and “Forrest Gump” — seemed to address a male object of love.
Mr. Ocean had already decided to make his love affair with a man public in the liner notes to the album, but, as the BBC and other news outlets raised questions about his lyrics, he made the decision to publish a draft of those notes on his Tumblr blog on Tuesday, his publicist said. In that letter to his fans, written in December 2011, he said he had fallen in love and slept with a man he met four summers ago, when he was 19. The affair continued, he wrote, for at least two summers.
“By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant,” he wrote. “It was hopeless. There was no escaping. No negotiating with the feeling. No Choice. It was my first love. It changed my life.”
Chely Wright, a country singer who came out in May 2010, said Mr. Ocean’s willingness to explain his emotions to his fans, to go beyond a flat statement about his sexuality, had moved her to tears. She predicted he would lose some fans, just as she had in the conservative world of country music.
“It was so emotional and correct the way Frank penned a letter to his audience,” she said. Gay artists, she said, had a “responsibility to tell our stories in a bit more detail so our listeners and our fans don’t automatically think, ‘Gay sex! Oh my God,’ so they might understand the true nuanced journey of a closeted person in a conservative world.”




http://www.nytimes.com/

segunda-feira, 2 de julho de 2012

Anderson Cooper: "I'm gay, always have been, always will be"


in: http://www.samesame.com.au/

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Ending years of speculation, one of CNN’s brightest stars has come out as gay, instantly becoming the most prominent openly gay TV journalist ever seen.
“The fact is, I’m gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud,” Anderson Cooper wrote to the Daily Beast blog writer Andrew Sullivan, who is a long-standing close friend of the 45-year-old anchorman.
“Even though my job puts me in the public eye, I have tried to maintain some level of privacy in my life,” he explains of his reluctance to come out earlier. “Part of that has been for purely personal reasons. I think most people want some privacy for themselves and the people they are close to.”
But: “I’ve also been reminded recently that while as a society we are moving toward greater inclusion and equality for all people, the tide of history only advances when people make themselves fully visible. There continue to be far too many incidences of bullying of young people, as well as discrimination and violence against people of all ages, based on their sexual orientation, and I believe there is value in making clear where I stand.”
Rumours about Cooper’s sexuality have been rife for years – even before he came out, Out magazine put him on their list of influential LGBT Americans, and he’s even been a gay magazine coverboy before.



Among the many celebrities to welcome Cooper out of the closet in recent hours has been comedian Kathy Griffin, who posted this picture of the two mates together. Her caption read: “Here I am with my friend Anderson Cooper who I’m so proud of.”




http://www.samesame.com.au/

domingo, 1 de julho de 2012

Emmys 2012: 'Glee's' Naya Rivera on Playing a Lesbian Role Model


in: http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/race/emmys-2012-glee-naya-rivera-343190


The actress, who will play host on a special Emmy video this year, talks with THR about Santana's coming out process and the awards season buzz surrounding her performance.




Naya Rivera Glee 300th Song - H 2012

Frank Micelotta/FOX
"Glee's" Naya Rivera



Glee's Naya Rivera not only fronted the show's landmark 300th musical performance but made the production -- an Adele mash-up -- a poignant one as it represented a major moment in her character's coming out process.

During November's "Mash Off" episode, Rivera's Santana Lopez is pushed out of the closet after a confrontation with Finn (Cory Monteith) that ended with the jock calling her a coward.

Her public outing was a defining moment for the character and for Lopez, whose performance as the quick-witted cheerleader has been garnering Emmy attention for most of Glee's third season.


Now, the TV Academy has tapped Rivera to follow in the footsteps of Jane LynchParks and Recreation's Adam Scott, Modern Family's Eric Stonestreet and several others to host a special 10-minute Emmy video that reaches an estimated 25 million people in more than 125 countries.
The Hollywood Reporter caught up with Rivera on Thursday after the young actress wrapped the Wednesday night shoot for the video (which bows on the TV Academy's YouTube channel July 23) to discuss Emmy buzz, emotional scenes and being a lesbian role model.

The Hollywood Reporter: What was filming the Emmy video like?
Naya Rivera: 
We started at 5 and were done by 6:30 p.m., I feel like I was doing nothing! (Laughs.) It was shot on a green screen and I was wearing an elegant gown; they wanted it to be glamorous like the Emmys and went over the shows that would be up for an award and explained about what the Emmys are doing on the website for this year's show and talked about Jimmy Kimmel, who's hosting. It's a huge honor, especially since people I admire have done this before me: Jane did it last year and she's quite the fan favorite.

How are you navigating the Emmy buzz surrounding your performance?
It's very exciting. I've been on the show for three seasons and each season for me gets better and better. I submitted "Mash Off," the episode that has "Rumor Has It," for Emmy consideration and thought that was a blessing to have an episode that was so well rounded. We are a comedy but I also got to show off some dramatic aspects of the character that I brought to it this season. For people to even think that I'd be considered or a good candidate for a supporting actress nomination is mind blowing to me.

Chris Colfer earned an Emmy nomination for his role after Kurt's coming out season. Did the thought of Emmy consideration ever pop into your head while you were filming the episode?
Definitely. Since we had people like Chris and his character Kurt go through similar things -- this was when it was all coming to a head and there were so many different layers to Santana's coming out story -- I definitely felt the pressure. When I got the script, the cast and crew were joking that this was my Emmy episode. A friend on the crew was texting me, "Happy Emmy Day" on the day we filmed  (laughs).

How did you approach filming the episode?
Eric Stoltz 
directed and I was happy to have him manning that ship in that episode. I approached it head-on. I don't like to waste opportunities, and especially being a supporting cast member on this show to really make the most of it and show [executive producers] Ryan Murphy, Brad Falchuk and Ian Brennan and all the writers that you can handle the things that they're giving you. Hopefully I did a good job with that.

After Santana came out on the show, did you alter the way you approached stepping into her shoes? 
Definitely. Her relationships and the way she interacted with a lot of the other characters -- especially the male ones. It was really hard because it had to have a subtlety to it; she still had to dish out insults to all the guys but I didn't want there to be a layer of hurt under it anymore. It had to be, "That's who she is," and she had to keep her softness with Brittany had to continue throughout the rest of the season.

How did you prepare for Santana's coming out scenes? The monologue she had with her grandmother was very powerful. Did you talk to Chris or Jane about it?
I'm blessed to have a number of close personal friends in my life who are gay and lesbian and I've heard their stories about high school and how it's still a struggle for them. I had that to take with me and I also infused my own feelings about love and relationships and how tough that is and those feelings of embarrassment when things don't work out your way. It was a combination of both.

What types of fan mail did you get after that?
Oh my gosh, I get so many stories of people that the story line truly touched them and and hit home for them. It's created a fan base for me that I never thought I'd have. I was reading that my episode of The Glee Project that the demographic of women went up like 27 percent. It's really cool to know that there are people out there that this does matter to and that your work does matter. 

Via Santana's story line, you've become a role model for lesbians -- recently repeating as AfterEllen.com's No. 1 on their annual Hot 100 list. What does being a lesbian icon and role model mean to you?
It still really hasn't hit me, to be honest with you. Those are big words: icon and role model. I never thought that would happen for me going into the show; it wasn't supposed to happen that way, it was scripted that way -- that's not who she was in Season 1, Episode 1 when she was mean to Rachel in the bathroom. It's really cool to see how it's evolved and it's given me the greatest fan base in the entire world.





sexta-feira, 29 de junho de 2012

Diana King comes out as a lesbian



in: http://www.gaystarnews.com/

Fans show support for Jamaican singer-songwriter who says living a lie was 'horrible'

Singer Diana King comes out as a lesbian



Jamaican reggae singer Diana King has come out as a lesbian.

The 41-year-old who shot to fame in the 1990s with hit single Shy Guy made the announcement on her Facebook page yesterday (28 June).

In the post, King wrote: 'I am... woman... mother... aunt... Jamaican... American... international artiste... singer... songwriter... band leader... friend... lover... entrepreneur... goddess! among other things and yes!!!… I am a lesbian [sic].'

The performer who fuses reggae, R&B and dancehall has long been rumored to be gay.

However, King said she decided to come out now 'not because it's anyone's business but because it feels right with my soul'.

'I have always been afraid to admit it openly because of the unknown of what it may cause negatively, to me, my career, my family and loved ones' she wrote.

'But I realized that it is not my job to make others comfortable.'

She added that her only regret is that she didn't come out earlier.

'Trying to live a lie is horrible, whether gay or straight, for me was the saddest part of it all because it only caused immense pain to everyone involved,' she said.

'I have been myself to the fullest all except for when I came to my sexuality.'

The revelation has received almost 200 likes and messages of support from fans.

Nadine Dacosta commented: 'I don't care either way, it does not change the fact you are a brilliant artist...more power to you for saying it out loud even tho you owe nobody an explaination.'

Yvonne-Evie Blijden, another Facebook fan, wrote: 'You go girllll, proud of you 100%, been there. Coming out sets yourself free, so live and enjoy it's your life and only Jah can judge you.'

Jamaica is frequently described by human rights groups as one of the most homophobic places in the world.

Sex between men is punishable with up to 10 years in prison and Amnesty International has reported that violent abuse of LGBT people is common.

Watch King's hit song Shy Guy below:






http://www.gaystarnews.com/

segunda-feira, 18 de junho de 2012

Cristão fundamentalista se passa por gay por um ano e vence homofobia


in: http://www.ogirassol.com.br/






Timothy Kurek é um estadunidense que se descrevia como um “cristão homofóbico”, mas decidiu fingir que era gay durante um ano. Segundo ele, o objetivo era entender o que acontece na vida de alguém que “sai do armário” e como as pessoas reagem. No fim, Timothy relata ter vencido a homofobia e se tornado uma pessoa mais tolerante, como ele desejava.

Ele teve a ideia, depois que um amigo muito querido assumiu ser homossexual e foi profundamente rejeitado pela família. Como resultado da experiência está escrevendo um livro sobre suas experiências, “Jesus in Drag”,que deve ser lançado em outubro. Para ajudar na experiência, um amigo gay de Timothy se tornou “namorado” e professor dele.

Kurek relatou que quando ele “saiu do armário” sua família e a maior parte dos amigos o apoiaram. “Minha família me tratou com o amor e o respeito que eu esperava”. Durante seu tempo como gay, Kurek passou a frequentar áreas de frequência homossexual, como bares, cafés e livrarias em Nashville, no Tennessee.

De acordo com o americano, apesar de respeitá-lo, na família havia sempre o clichê cristão “ame o pecador, odeie o pecado”. Ele relata ainda que sua experiência foi limitada, porque ele não é gay. “Eu nunca poderia escrever um livro sobre ser gay porque eu não sou, mas a experiência com o rótulo de gay trouxe um impacto na minha vida cotidiana”, afirma.

Para conhecer mais sobre o ex-homofóbico, visite a página de Thimothy Kurek no Facebook. (Do site Brasília em Pauta, com informações do Huffing Post


http://www.ogirassol.com.br/

sexta-feira, 25 de maio de 2012

Jim Parsons Reveals He's Gay In NY Times Profile

in: http://www.advocate.com/




Award-winning actor Jim Parsons reveals he's gay and in a 10-year relationship, according to a New York Times profile.
Parsons, best-known as Sheldon Cooper on the CBS sitcom The Big Bang Theory, discusses his work in last year's production ofThe Normal Heart, Larry Kramer's searing chronicle of the AIDS epidemic in New York City during the early 1980s. The Times' Patrick Healy writes, "The Normal Heart resonated with him on a few levels: Mr. Parsons is gay and in a 10-year relationship..."
The 39-year-old actor publicly thanked his partner Todd Spiewak from the podium of the Golden Globe awards ceremony while accepting the trophy for best actor in a comedy series.
Parsons, who will recreate his role in Normal Heart in director Ryan Murphy's forthcoming film adaptation, is currently headlining the revival of the classic comedy Harvey as Elwood P. Dowd which will open June 14 at New York's Studio 54 theatre.


http://www.advocate.com/

sábado, 19 de maio de 2012

Y-Love, black Jewish rapper, comes out as gay


in: http://www.jewishjournal.com/






Yitz Jordan’s identity as a black Orthodox Jewish rapper was already a bit complicated. Jordan, known as Y-Love has struggled with his public image for years—and today in an interview published by Out magazine Y-Love revealed that he is gay.
An excerpt:
“I’ve never been conflicted about my sexuality,” Jordan told Out in an exclusive interview this week. “Any conflicts that have come up in my life have come up because of other people’s homophobia. I’ve always known when to be in the closet and when not to.”
So why come out now? According to Jordan, he’s wanted to tell the world that he’s gay for some time, but he was concerned that his “public reputation” would be tarnished and the music career he has fought so hard to carve out in a seemingly intolerant community would be ruined.
“I feel like I’ve wasted years of my life worrying that it would alienate the community I dedicated my life to as an artist and as a man. But my hope is that it will open their eyes—and hearts.”
Read the rest here.




I met Jordan, 34, at Jewlicious in 2009, when I was there to discuss my own complicated Jew-ish identity. His story has been passing around my Jewish friends on Facebook today, and I’ve seen nothing but support (like this from William Daroff).



http://www.jewishjournal.com/

quinta-feira, 10 de maio de 2012

Tom Gabel of Against Me! Comes Out as Transgender



in: http://www.rollingstone.com/


Singer reveals plans to begin living as a woman in the new issue of Rolling Stone



tom gabel against me
Tom Gabel in St. Augustine, Florida.
Cass Bird
Against Me! singer Tom Gabel reveals plans to begin living as a woman in the new issue of Rolling Stone. Gabel, who has dealt privately with gender dysphoria for years, will soon begin the process of transition, by taking hormones and undergoing electrolysis treatments.
Gabel will eventually take the name Laura Jane Grace, and will remain married to her wife Heather. "For me, the most terrifying thing about this was how she would accept the news," says Gabel. "But she's been super-amazing and understanding."
Gabel only told a handful of family and friends about her plan to transition before talking to Rolling Stone. Because this is the first time a major rock star has come out as transgender, the singer made a point of speaking openly about it. "I'm going to have embarrassing moments," says Gabel, "and that won't be fun. But that's part of what talking to you is about – is hoping people will understand, and hoping they'll be fairly kind."
The full story of Gabel's transformation is in the latest issue, on newsstands this Friday (May 11th). In it, the singer tells Josh Eells about her history of gender dysphoria, the specifics of the transition process and what becoming Laura Jane Grace will mean for the future of Against Me!






http://www.rollingstone.com/

quinta-feira, 15 de dezembro de 2011

Alpine school criticized for outing gay student to parents

http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/news/53115950-78/parents-student-gay-students.html.csp


A Utah County middle school's decision to out a gay student to his parents has sparked criticism from advocates for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) youths.

Alpine School District has received emails and phone calls from many in the LGBT community nationwide since a Facebook page was created to protest the incident at Willowcreek Middle School in Lehi, said district spokeswoman Rhonda Bromley. But Bromley said much of the criticism is a response to false claims made on the Facebook page, including that the student was suspended for being open about his sexual orientation at school.

Parents were notified that their 14-year-old son is gay, she said, because the school was being "proactive" in preventing bullying. The student was not disciplined at school, she said, but his parents, who have asked that their names not be released to media, have decided to keep him home until attention surrounding the issue dies down. The student plans to return to school after winter break.

"We do include parents any time there's a potential safety issue with a student," Bromley said.

Valerie Larabee, director of the Utah Pride Center, said she was "disturbed" by the incident.

"It's important to me that school officials deal with bullying issues and don't cause another problem for the child by outing him to his parents," she said. "That conversation can be really devastating to young people when their family rejects them. Once you've uttered the words, 'I'm gay,' your home life can change forever."

LGBT youths who experience high levels of family rejection are eight times more likely to attempt suicide, six times more likely to experience depression, and three times more likely to use illegal drugs than those who don't, according to a recent study published in the medical journal Pediatrics.

But Bromley said this student's parents have been "very supportive" of their son. "That is their No. 1 concern right now, to help him feel safe and help him feel supported."

Last week, the eighth-grade student began letting classmates know that he is gay, including by noting it in a class assignment in which students created advertisements about themselves. A teacher consulted with him to make sure he wanted it displayed in class with all the other students' posters, and he said he did. Later, an adult aide overheard other students making negative comments to the boy about being gay. An assistant principal admonished the students for their comments.

The administrator also talked to the gay student, who confirmed he is gay but said he had not told his parents, Bromley said. The administrator discussed the need for the boy to be able to feel safe talking to teachers and his parents about any problems he may have.

"He was nervous about [telling his parents]. He initially said, 'No, that can't happen.' She talked to him. He finally agreed reluctantly," Bromley said. But the student insisted on not being in the room when the administrator told his parents he's gay.

On Wednesday, the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network issued a statement saying schools should not out students without their consent.

"Outing a student not only violates their right to privacy, but also could compromise their safety. Parents can be notified of their child being bullied at school, but without disclosing their sexual orientation or gender identity," said GLSEN Executive Director Eliza Byard. "Taking away the choice for an LGBT student to come out on their own terms opens the door to significant risks including harassment at school and family rejection. Schools should be able to provide LGBT students with support and resources in order to make an informed decision if and when they decide to come out to their school community and family."


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